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I ran across a man here on xhamster that wondered if it was "wrong" being a heterosexual male and desiring sex with TS's, TV's or CD's. This was my reply to him and thought I'd share it:

Saw your comment to my comment, then read your profile and wanted to share my opinion with you on what you said on it. Not only do I not think it is NOT wrong to call yourself hetero for liking trans folks, I think it is enlightened!

YOU are STILL performing sexually as a REAL MAN would/should and clearly hetero. You aren't doing one single thing that a man shouldn't do -- you are enjoying your cock sucked and you are enjoying fucking a hole like it was pussy -- you WOULD be 'queer' if you didn't like those things like a man should!

So, it is very debatable whether it is even homo to have sex with a trans person. Only very technically could you call it male-male, but very clearly one of those males can't be defined as a real man in any real way. One male is performing sexually as a man and one as a girl and that is pretty darn hetero sounding to me!

I consider myself a male and happily male, but for some unknown reason, I am not wired sexually to want to perform sexually as a real man is supposed to. That is, for some reason, I PREFER sucking cock and having the hole in my little bottom function as pussy for men. I used to think I was a real man too ... UNTIL that first cock parted my lips, then penetrated my bottom and I embarrassingly realized it was THE best sex I had ever had! A real man would never think that way! I haven't had sex like a man is supposed to in many, many years! I was put into panties, etc, BECAUSE I pleased him as well as and usually better than any real girl did. In other words, he put me into panties, etc. to REFLECT how I always had sex and how I preferred to always have sex and that I pleased him as well as and usually better than genetic girls did!

A trans-sexual is a male that feels like she was born in the wrong body and they are the ones that often have the operations to correct their bodies to their minds.

I am NOT a TS because I am happily male and like living everyday life as a male. I am more a transvestite (TV) or crossdresser (CD) or pussyboy because I really don't have any desire to lose my penis or become or live as a girl 24/7. I'm really not even all that effeminate nor swishy and I like playing and watching sports. I actually like everything about being a guy, EXCEPT the sex part and in that, clearly, I don't perform as a man does since I am always the recipient of cock and cum and nothing thrills me more than making a real man happy HE was born a real man, while he makes me happy I wasn't!

Even in the hardware store, the plug with the holes is considered the female plug and the one with the prongs that inserts into the female plug, is the male plug! While my gender is male, my sexuality is clearly that of the female plug.

In other words, I am male and happily male, but I just don't think like a man does sexually. Give me a choice of having my dick sucked or sucking the cum from a nice cock, I'd ALWAYS choose the latter. Give me a choice of fucking something or being fucked, again, I'd ALWAYS choose the latter! Just because I am male doesn't mean I am a MAN sexually -- one's sexual role that they were born with doesn't always follow their gender. Even the opposite applies -- not all females like cock and they become butch lesbians and prefer pussy as much as real men do!

I think that's where a lot of the confusion comes from -- folks forget that one's proper sexual role doesn't always follow gender and yes, it can be called 'queer', but it isn't 'queer' for us -- it feels right and natural for us. My fellow cocksuckers know exactly what I am talking about in how right and natural it feels to be on your knees sucking a real man's cock and hearing him moan with pleasure!

Males like me have been around since the beginning of time and will always be around! If I were with you, there would be ZERO doubt who the real man was and who the gurl was! Again, I don't know how YOU could be more hetero when YOU are performing sexually exactly as a man SHOULD. I am the one that would be considered the homo! And that's just the way it is because, in my opinion, none of us can help the sexualities we were born with!

I don't even always dress as a gurl, but I certainly understand the men that prefer me to, to have sex with me -- they don't feel homo when I am dressed to reflect my sexuality being closer to that of a girl's. But even if I weren't dressed and it looked like two guys, I still think that because YOU are the one having sex like a man should, that you would be confident in your own masculinity and not have any doubts about it -- you simply found someone, who like genetic girls (GG's) was born to perform sexually for you like a girl does. I once had a man tell me that I couldn't be better pussy if I had been born with a vagina! Lot of truth to that observation! He clearly knew I was NOT female, but he also very clearly knew I wasn't a real man sexually like HE was!

For you to take advantage of a TS, TV, CD or even a submissive pussyboy or male cocksucker/bottom boy is simply the right thing to do for a real man and shows a level of enlightenment not getting hung up on thinking YOU are not hetero, because in my opinion, you are VERY hetero and my gender shouldn't even factor into denting that FACT!